April 10, 2014 Thoughts on Teens, Words, Schools, General

I do not think people really understand the power of words
Written words or spoken words
I also believe Teens experiment with the way words sound in their writing
whether they truly know the meaning at all, Kind of like the way a new baby
is learning to speak. Well they are still children no matter how the schools
or their parents treat them, or what they think in their own underdeveloped minds.

Yes YOU ARE CHILDREN STILL

Medical science proves your brains are not fully developed in some very
important areas no matter how much your body is maturing. (and may not be until
you are 24 or more in some cases)

But usage of words is very important I urge teens to be wary when they speak
use your words wisely, and in as positive a manner as possible. Folks really
remember the negative words you speak and you will be labeled.
No Matter if you
have had a BAD DAY or Good Day.

Your words need to start being more eloquent
your words need to be Truthful
Your words need to be positive
Your words need to be on point in the matter you are speaking
You need to know sentence structures.
You need to delete profanity it shows stupidity.

Now I know you are thinking "WHaaaaTTT...!???
Everything I say matters I'm the center of the Universe or Don't you know."

That high pedestal you seat yourself upon has a hard bottom when
someone knocks you off it

Remain in HIGH STANDINGS by always being positive and informed in what you are speaking.
you may provide yourself a cushion for the future by having a great
infrastructure to hold you up or catch you when you fall.

Now for the parent that allow your kids to speak to them in a disrespectful manner.
You are NOT doing them a favor by not addressing them when it happens.
If the teen escalates the issue in public, you are so in bounds to correct them IN PUBLIC.

This does not mean take a stick to your child, but think about the luxuries they take
for granted and would absolutely "DIE Without" TV? Phone? Friday Night Freedom?
Be A Freaking Parent people. You run the house not the child.

And for you children who think you can Fraudulently accuse an adult of something untrue
"Shame On You' Too Much TV Especially if it's your parents
If kids lie do they really understand the consequences. Not Really

It's really unfortunate the ones who actually do suffer from abuse do not come forward
but fortunate kids who think they know so much

Now for the schools, I think it really should be consistence in the same district.
Homework practices, standards, (for K5 - G12)communicate people.
Apparently school employees think there is a 27 week grace period for children to settle in from
Middle school to High School, guess what by that time if the child is not doing well
they probably are not going to be able to do anything about it. (We live in a small town
the kids are not adjusting to the kids because everyone knows everyone)
Teachers I am not impressed when help has been sought, I see two choices here Help the kid
or find help for the kid. Choices taken in one situation Nothing and Neglect.
As for school the Common Core learning and A/B days that'll have to be another blog

OK Teens words effect and have affect, your thought of the day
Delete this from your vocabulary to your parents "I DON'T CARE"
it's hurtful even if you don't really mean it




On a personal witness account that I feel
simply needs to be shared On BAD PARENTING it was just bad
this happened a while back but it still hurts my feeling to think about it
So glad I have self control and my tazer was dead.



Now as for the Jerk who was already making about an 8 year old feel inferior
I believe you told him he was like a cockroach. You do not deserve to talk to that child that way
because I believe sir you are less than the cockroach excrement.
(footnote: children we're playing as the man was on the phone "Not paying the kids any attention
and most of the time about 30 feet away from them. Constantly putting down the small boy every time
returned to the buggy. Finally the youngest sitting in the top of the buggy 'Not Strapped
IN!' fell over into the back of the buggy trying to get to the older child standing on the back/front
of the buggy whatever it was the opposite side. Thus this went forth into about a 5 minute beating of the older child In Public...Whilst cursing at him and saying GodAwful things to him.) (It was no spanking)

You know I made sure the man knew I heard & saw this when I walked over in between the man and the boy
and ask the boy if he was alright, needed help and gave him a lollypop!

Someone needed to acknowledge to this person so they had an inkling maybe that was wrong.
Seeing this child face and hearing him beg not to be hit beforehand. I hope I see that guy again...


I love children
They are our future
But they need to be taught
not just entertained
not just turned loose
(Lord Of The Flies)
Wild Children will not take the reigns
and provide structure for a productive future.

If any of my children read this Know, I Love ya
but I'm not gonna turn ya loose in this chaotic world
it's not parental or feasible in this population of people of today
Read the freaking new girls and boys.

Have a nice day folks
I feel a weight has lifted
V